For me, it’s never about whether that customer is really hard, or has a huge dick, or whatever. Sometimes I just have chemistry with someone, and I don’t always know why, and I just get really turned on. Sometimes I just fucking click with someone else. It’s usually someone I wouldn’t even expect, someone I wouldn’t find myself turned on by in my personal life — the guy that I had a really awkward and brief conversation with, a guy in his late 50s, etc.
I’ve never been tempted to, nor have I ever, done anything sexual with a customer (I assume you mean something like hand jobs/fingering me, oral sex, or penetrative sex). It isn’t legal and I don’t want to suffer the consequences either from police or from my club. I don’t want to risk contracting an STD/STI. It’s disrespectful and hurtful to my coworkers, whose incomes suffer when dancers do things like this. And, quite simply, it’s just not my thing. I’m at work.
I never tell the customer when I’m legitimately turned on. Most wouldn’t believe me anyway, and then it just dumps the idea into their heads that not every dancer is actually turned on when she’s acting like it. And it’s personal — my secret!