My (Strippr’s) thoughts:
Nah. Men that go to strip clubs? They’re from every walk of life. Old, young, single, married, unhappy, satisfied with life, disfigured, hotties, overweight, underweight, extremely wealthy, dirt poor, parenting, childless, traveling, locals, etc. You get the point. Whatever they go for, I never see it as pathetic or depressing. They’re people. They deserve to be treated as such, and cared for, too. Taking care of one’s sexual self is not “bad”, “dirty”, or “wrong”, despite common sentiment on strippers.
There is something sexy about a strip club. Beautiful and confident women are sexy. Dancing and gymnastics and pole tricks and all of the things those very strong bodies can do, are sexy. Allowing yourself to get lost in your own fantasies for just a little while, is sexy. Being turned on is sexy. Learning about your own body for once, is sexy.
Being a sexual human being and admitting it, is sexy.